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+ Red Lentil and Oxtail Stew, Double chocolate Rye Cookies, Breakfast Tacos, and Sangria Mocktails
Welcome to Let’s Get Lost! I’m Rebecca, a recipe developer, food photographer, passionate people watcher, and chaser of new experiences. You might know me from my recipe websites, Of Batter and Dough and A Little and A Lot.
My husband and I are nomads without a home base but with many modes of transportation, namely an RV, a motorcycle, and a sailboat. I write recipes and stories for curious people who believe experiences are more important than things and who want more adventure.
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This issue is a reheat
If you’ve ever listened to the podcast The Sporkful, you know that when they re-release an episode, they call it a “Reheat”. I love this and am stealing it. :-)
I’ll be on vacation in Europe through must of April and so am re-publishing a few of the most popular past issues while I’m away.
This issue was originally published in May of 2024. It contains a lot of my favorite recipes, ones you may have missed if you subscribed at some point after then. I hope you enjoy!
Hello from our home state of Colorado!
Both Steve and I were born and raised in Colorado and lived here until we sold our house and moved into our RV in early 2020. Our daughters live here as do both sides of our family and many of our closest friends so our time is always packed with activity. And even though we do our best, we never manage to see everyone we want to see.
These return trips to the place where we spent the first 45 years of our lives is an interesting experience. I thought that I would always think of Colorado as home, but as the years go by, it feels like home less and less. It’s strange to be in a place that’s so familiar but in which I feel like the visitors that we are.
Being in Colorado also causes me to spend more time in the past. I’m sure anyone reading this who has moved away from the place they were raised knows exactly what I mean.
For me, there is value in trying to understand the past. And anyway, I’m compelled to introspect on where my thoughts, beliefs, and behaviors come from. It’s who I am. I try to understand the systems in which my life has played out, how I’ve contributed to and been affected by the whole mess, in ways both good and bad. We either repeat the past or repair what’s broken and do something different and I don’t know how to do that except by thinking about it.
But at some point we have to recognize that who we were in the past is over. Those moments no longer exist except in my mind. All I can ever do is be who I am now.
The only tangible thing I can do with the past is decide today to be better than I used to be and recognize that joy comes from being present.
This is a daily practice, isn’t it? Being present in each moment is a gift we give ourselves.
I actually laughed out loud a little bit when writing that last sentence because what a funny, ridiculous thing us humans are to have to remind ourselves to be present.
5 Things to make next week
A few recipes to consider adding to the week’s meal plan:
1. Beer Battered Fried Fish
Beer does several fantastic things for fried fish batter, but the main effect comes from the carbonation. The bubbles in beer aerate the batter, which helps to make it light and crispy. The same effect can be achieved by adding plain club soda, but beer also adds flavor. Recipe: Beer Battered Fried Fish
2. Skillet Vegetable Lasagna
This cheesy, saucy vegetarian lasagna is packed with zucchini, cauliflower, walnuts, mushrooms, roasted red peppers, sun-dried tomatoes, onions, and garlic all layered up with creamy parmesan béchamel, pasta, and three kinds of cheese.
The veggies are chopped up in a food processor and create a meaty texture that's as close to cozy lasagna perfection as you can get. Recipe: Skillet Vegetable Lasagna
3. Crispy Coconut Lime Chicken
This recipe is such a great example of how salty, spicy, sweet, and sour can balance and complement each other to create interesting layers of flavor that keep you going back for more.
And, holy smokes, the sauce. If you love tart citrus flavors, you're going to want to pour this sauce on everything. Recipe: Crispy Coconut Lime Chicken
4. Cherry Crumble Bars
These buttery cherry crumble bars are little slices of heaven, that's what they are. The buttery shortbread base is topped with orange liquor-spiked cherry preserves and crispy, crunchy, sweet butter crumbs for bars that resemble cherry crumb pie in cookie form. Recipe: Cherry Crumble Bars
5. Chocolate Chip Cake with Peanut Butter Fudge Icing
This easy Chocolate Chip Bundt Cake is extra soft and fluffy, with the most delicious balance of chocolate chips and buttery cake. Topped with Peanut Butter Fudge Icing, it's the kind of crowd pleasing cake recipe that's perfect for nearly any occasion, including your run of the mill Tuesday night. Recipe: Chocolate Chip Cake
Red lentil and oxtail stew
Oh my, this recipe was a happy accident. I have never before in my life purchased or cooked oxtails and honestly, wasn’t interested in trying.
But, while my intention was to purchase 4 packages of short ribs, what I actually purchased was 3 packages of short ribs and one of oxtails. Not knowing what else to do with them, I added them to this red lentil stew and wow! So good!
The thing I love the most about this recipe is how meaty it tastes without containing much meat. An oxtail is just the tail of cattle. Most of the time it’s sold in pieces that include a tailbone with some marrow in the center, and a bony portion of meat surrounding the tail. It’s mostly bone and marrow with a little bit of meat.
For this stew, I simmered a few pieces of oxtail in broth flavored with onion, celery, garlic, paprika, cumin, and tomato for a couple of hours, until the meat was tender. This long simmer created the most luxurious and rich broth in which to cook red lentils and rice.
The meat from the oxtail is pulled from the bone and added back to the stew - there’s not a lot of meat, but honestly, you don’t need more. This stew is richly satisfying in a rustic, homey, super comforting way and I hope you’ll love it as much as we did.
3 tablespoons vegetable, canola, or extra virgin olive oil
1 large yellow sweet onion, peeled and chopped
2 stalks of celery, chopped
3-4 cloves of garlic, minced
Salt and pepper
1 tablespoon smoked paprika (more to taste)
2 teaspoons ground cumin (more to taste)
2 tablespoons tomato paste
2 tablespoons Better Than Bouillon Sofrito Base (optional)
2 pounds of beef oxtails
Water or broth (If using Better Than Bouillon Sofrito Base, use water. Otherwise use any kind of flavorful broth or stock, or just use water.)
1/4 cup long or medium grain white rice
1 cup red lentils
Chopped fresh parsley, for garnish
Add the oil, onion, celery, and garlic to a saucepan or braiser and cook until the onions are soft and beginning to look translucent. Sprinkle with a small amount of salt and pepper and add the paprika, cumin, tomato paste and better than bouillon sofrito base (if using). Cook, stirring for another minute or two to open up the flavors of the spices and caramelize the tomato paste.
Add the oxtails to the pan and pour in enough water or broth to come about 3/4 of the way up the sides of the oxtails. Bring the liquid to a boil, then cover the pan and lower the heat to maintain a gentle simmer. Let the oxtails simmer for about 2 hours, until the meat is tender. Lift the lid of the pot every now and then to check the volume of liquid. Add more as necessary to keep enough liquid in the pot to come 3/4 of the way up the sides of the oxtails.
Remove the oxtails from the pan and set them on a plate or cutting board. Add the rice and lentils to the pan and bring the liquid back to a boil. Cover the pan, lower the heat to maintain a gentle simmer, and cook until the lentils are very tender and falling apart, about 30 minutes. (*The thickness of this stew is up to you - as the rice and lentils cook, add more water or broth to achieve the desired consistency.)
When the oxtails are cool enough to handle, tear the meat from the bones, and cut or tear it into small pieces. Add it back to the stew and taste for seasoning. Add more salt and pepper if desired.
Serve with a sprinkle of chopped fresh Italian (flat leaf) parsley.
Double chocolate rye cookies
If you are not a chocolate lover, move along, these cookies are not for you. BUT, for all you chocolate and brownie lovers, gather up your ingredients and get baking because this is about to become one of your new favorite cookie recipes.
Chocolate and rye is a delicious combo (have you tried these double chocolate rye muffins???) The rye flour adds a subtle nutty complexity that balances the bitterness of the chocolate and just makes everything sing.
These double chocolate cookies have a brownie-like texture, with a soft, fudgy interior and slightly crispy edges.
Makes 16 large cookies
9 ounces bittersweet, semi-sweet, or milk chocolate bars - OR 1 1/2 cups of chocolate chips
17 tablespoons unsalted butter
1/3 cup granulated white sugar
1 cup packed dark or light brown sugar
1 tablespoon pure vanilla extract or vanilla paste
2 large eggs plus 1 large egg yolk
1 cup + 2 tablespoons dark rye flour
1 cup all-purpose flour
7 tablespoons cocoa powder
1 teaspoon baking soda
1 1/2 teaspoons cornstarch
1 teaspoon kosher salt
If using chocolate bars, chop them into small-ish pieces that are about the size of chocolate chips. Add half of the chocolate to a heatproof bowl and set it next to the stovetop.
Add the butter to a light colored saucepan and set it over medium heat. (Dark bottom pans make it difficult to see when the butter is browned.) Heat the butter, stirring often, until it’s melted and begins to boil. As you stir, pay attention to the color of the butter underneath the foam. When it's done, the butter beneath the foam will be golden brown with dark brown specks on the bottom of the pan and will smell nutty. (For images of the process of browning butter, take a look at this recipe for brown sugar cookies.)
Immediately pour the brown butter over the chocolate. Let it stand for 10-15 seconds then stir until all the chocolate is melted.
Preheat the oven to 350 degrees and line a couple of baking sheets with parchment paper.
Add the butter and chocolate mixture to a bowl with both sugars. Beat briefly with an electric mixer (or whisk vigorously with a wire whisk) to combine then let rest for 10-15 minutes to allow the mixture to cool slightly.
In a small bowl or measuring cup, whisk the egg and egg yolk together with the vanilla. Add this mixture slowly to the butter, chocolate, and sugar mixture, using an electric mixer to beat the dough as you pour it in. Beat on medium speed for about 30 seconds after all the eggs have been added.
Add all the dry ingredients to a bowl and stir with a wire whisk to combine. Add the dry ingredients and the remaining chopped chocolate or chocolate chips to the batter and use a wooden spoon or rubber spatula to stir until everything is combined.
Form the dough into 16 balls (approximately 1/4 cup of dough per ball) and set them on the baking sheets, spacing them at least 3 inches apart.
Bake the cookies for 8 -10 minutes then remove the cookie sheet from the oven and let the cookies rest until they are firm enough to be removed from the sheet without breaking. When done, the edges will look set but the center of the cookies will look under-baked. As the cookies rest, their centers will firm up.
Breakfast tacos
Having made these earlier in the week, there was a container of rice and beans and some corn tortillas in the refrigerator when I sat down to write this recipe. Immediately after adding the photo, I went to the kitchen and made some for my lunch because writing about tacos without eating tacos is an unreasonable ask.
I have been making these simple, nutritious, delicious tacos every single week since returning from Costa Rica earlier this year. We mostly eat them for breakfast and keep it pretty simple - a few warm homemade corn tortillas filled with flavor-packed rice and beans and some salsa. Sometimes I add some chopped cherry tomatoes and usually drizzle mine with hot sauce.
But there are an endless number of variations on this theme and so I’ve listed a few ideas below to get you started. But first, the basics:
All you need to make these tacos is corn tortillas and a pot of rice and beans and corn tortillas.
Your favorite salsa or hot sauce
That’s it. Pile some rice and beans into a warm tortilla and pour on some salsa or hot sauce or both. Here are a few ways to elaborate on this theme:
Add more protein: The combo of beans, rice, and corn is a complete protein but if you want to really boost the protein content of these tacos add scrambled or fried eggs, bacon or ham, sausage or chorizo, tofu, or pork carnitas.
Add some veggies: top your tacos with diced tomatoes, bell peppers, thinly sliced radishes, shredded cabbage, marinated bell peppers, quick pickled onions, or roasted corn. We also often have some leftover crispy fried potatoes in the refrigerator and they are so, so good in these tacos.
Sauce it up: Drizzle some vegan nacho cheese sauce, chimichurri sauce, or roasted tomatillo sauce over your tacos. Or, top them with almond salsa with green chilies or homemade pico de gallo.
Sangria mocktail
This is my new favorite summer drink. It’s light, refreshing, and fruity and even though it contains exactly 0% alcohol, it comes with strong carefree, day-drinking vibes and no regrets.
Ingredients:
Brewed black tea - any kind you like. For the sangria pictured here I used peach black tea which made it extra fruity.
Orange juice - fresh squeezed, or 100% juice
100% cranberry juice or 100% pomegranate juice (not cranberry juice cocktail)
7-up or zero sugar 7-up, or ginger ale
Fresh fruit
So, I do understand that it’s difficult to believe that this list of ingredients could produce something that mimics sangria which is made with red wine and brandy, but you’re going to have to set your skepticism aside for the time being and just try it.
The combination of black tea and cranberry or pomegranate juice mimic the acidity and tannins of red wine especially when mixed with orange juice. Also, it’s just plain delicious, which is all I want anyway from any beverage, with or without alcohol.
How to make:
Brew some black tea and let it cool.
For each cocktail, mix 2 parts tea with 1 part orange juice, cranberry juice, and 7-up.
Add some fresh fruit and ice to a cocktail or wine glass. Pour the sangria into the glass and garnish the glass with a slice of whatever fruit you like.
To make this for a crowd, I like to mix everything except the 7-up in a pitcher. Allow guests to pour their own and add as much or as little 7-up as they prefer.
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Wow, all of the recipes sound so amazing—the beer battered fish, the chocolate chip cake with peanut butter fudge icing, but I think I need to try that lentil oxtail stew first! 🤩
Love the lentil stew photo and defo trying that one soon! Hope you are enjoying your vacay!