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Amela Marin's avatar

Happy birthday, Rebecca!

Yes, life is so messy; we have to embrace all of it and hope that the good prevails.

Nicki Sizemore's avatar

As always, your words are so beautiful, so real, so filled with Life - in all it's real, messy, contradictions. I'll be thinking about the aunties today, and how I can channel some of that auntie energy this week. ❤️ And so glad you had a wonderful birthday!

Betty Williams's avatar

Jjimjilbang!!! I LOVE that you went to one with your friend! I go to one in Orange County and yes that first 5 minutes of nekkid-ness is very awkward but then like you said, you get over it. And it’s the best experience! So happy that you enjoyed a wonderful birthday week and shared all your beautiful thoughts with us 💖

Mira Dessy's avatar

Wishing you many happy returns of the day!

This piece is comfort wrapped up in so many different levels. I appreciate the reminder that even when hard things are happening in the world there are aunties, and community, and comfort available if you look for it.

And now I want to find a Korean spa to try a scrub down. It sounds amazing.

Rebecca Blackwell's avatar

Thank you Mira! I think you'd enjoy the whole experience of a Korean spa. They are, unfortunately, difficult to find. We are spending all summer in Michigan and I was dismayed to not find one anywhere near us. It's something I'd do somewhat frequently if I could.

Elizabeth Pizzinato's avatar

First of all, happy birthday my friend 💕Can’t wait to raise a glass together to toast you next week—woohoo!

All of this…the aunties, our messy human contradictions, self care and care for others in the midst of dark dark days—thank you for being a light in the midst of it all. A beautiful reflection, Rebecca ❤️

Rebecca Blackwell's avatar

Thank you so much, my friend. What a beautiful thing to say. I absolutely cannot wait to see you next week!!!